LOVE
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If You Want To Attract Love, Be A Loving Person — by Catherine Morgan
Did you ever notice that angry people tend to attract other angry people? That greedy people, enjoy the company of other greedy people? Just like we choose to associate with people in our lives that have similar interests as we do, we are also unconsciously choosing people that are putting out that same emotional “frequency” as we do.
So, who cares? Well, you should. That is; if you are interested in “attracting” people into your life that are kind, caring, and loving, and not angry, bitter, and hateful.
It’s all about awareness. If you are attracting negative people into your life, it is most likely that you are putting out negative “energy”, and you are most likely doing that because you are feeling negative “emotions”. If you are aware of that, you can work on putting out more positive energy, by choosing to feel more positive emotions. It is really very simple.
Basically, perception is everything. Ten people will experience the same situation ten different ways. Not because it happened ten different ways, but because they perceived it in ten different ways. Just like the proverbial “glass is half ____”, what? What were you going to say? Full? Empty?
If we walk through life unconsciously, life will come to us the same way. But, if we choose to be conscious of our feelings and emotions, we can help attract the life we want. It isn’t an exact science. But, if you want to attract love into your life, be a loving person, have loving feeling, have loving emotions. Just by being conscious of your feelings and your emotions, you are altering the frequencies you are putting out into the world. So, think about it for a minute. What frequencies were you putting out today? Loving? Kind?
The good thing is, that we do control our perceptions. Not much else though, you know how it is, we always feel we have no control over our lives. Well, that is because we really don’t have any control over our lives. However, how we “perceive” our out of control lives….that we do have control over. Not too much of a consolation, you say? Except that we can decide if we are going to be a happy, loving person, or an angry, bitter one. That’s a pretty big deal.
Once you decide what type of person you are going to choose to be, then you will know what type of person you will attract into your life. Just like the “frequencies” on a radio, if you want country music, you need to find that frequency. If you want Pop or Rock music, but you keep tuning into the frequency that plays country, well you are going to get _____. Right, country. Once you find the right “emotional” frequency, others with that frequency will be attracted to you.
So, if you want to attract love…..you need to be a loving person. Start by loving yourself, being grateful for the things you have. Once you can do that, start replacing angry or negative emotions, with positive loving emotions. Choose your reactions to life and work and family, in a positive loving way. When the “frequencies” you are putting out change, what you will attract to yourself will also change.
Just give it a try. It can’t hurt. So you were more loving and kind for a couple of days, no harm. But? What if there really is something to this crazy talk? What if you really can attract the love you have always wanted? You will never know, if you don’t give it a try.
Good Luck.
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What does love mean to you? Do you have a story about love? Do you have some thoughts on love? Let me know what they are, so I can include them in this space.
January 31, 2007 at 11:08 am
Please use this space to leave your comments on love. Thanks you.
February 7, 2007 at 12:37 am
What does love mean to me?Love is not an easy thing, maybe people can talk about love easily, but hard to do it. Sometimes love can hurt people’s heart, if there’s more ego on it rather than the real love. I think that’s what love does mean to me, love is give yourself to other people even more than you love your self(I’m sorry I’m not good in English)Thank You
February 7, 2007 at 1:07 am
No need to be sorry….that was great. Thank you for your comment.
March 2, 2007 at 1:29 am
“Ibloggle” — I did order the book today off of Amazon. For probably about the last year I really didn’t do as much reading as I like, actually almost no reading. Usually I am reading three or four books at a time. But, I began having some problems with my memory, that made reading very frustrating. Once my kids started to notice that I wasn’t remembering most of what they told me and they had to tell me things over and over again, I went to the doctors. Anyway, they did a bunch of tests, and it turned out my body doesn’t absorb vitamin B12, and my levels of this vitamin were virtually non-existent. I had no idea that a B12 deficiency actually could cause symptoms including memory loss, but once I started giving myself B12 injections within weeks I noticed a huge difference. It was only then that I could consider blogging, and I have also began to read again (you can’t imagine how frustrating it is to read one paragraph and before get to the next paragraph forgetting all of what you just read)….anyway, I am looking forward to getting this book, because it sounds like exactly the type of thing I like to read. So thank you for the recommendation.
Well, our tornado watch was just extended from 2am to 8am, and there is no way I am going to be able to stay up until 8am. I think I am just going to put the local news station on in my room and go to bed. Thanks again, for your comments and book recommendation.
May 11, 2007 at 3:51 pm
Ever hear the saying…you are what you eat?
Well it applies to relationships too….You attract what you have on the inside.
If you’re a control freak…you’ll attract a control freak.
If you’re toxic…watch out for a double dose of toxic in your relationships.
Changing who you are is definitely the way to change who you want to be with….it’s never the other way around.
GREAT post!!!
May 11, 2007 at 6:26 pm
“Blessed1″ — Thanks so much for the comment. I’m happy you like the post.
June 4, 2007 at 12:56 pm
I like your blog , u r doing nice job
September 12, 2007 at 1:32 am
“It’s all about awareness. If you are attracting negative people into your life, it is most likely that you are putting out negative “energy”, and you are most likely doing that because you are feeling negative “emotions”.”
The “why do we do this” is simple. We tend not to believe in the strength and influence of our family politics and issues when we are choosing to kiss our significant other. Yet, the dynamics of those first ten years of watching adults live life are extremely powerful. At least the first ten years of our life is setting us up for what kind of person we will be jumping into the backseat of that van.
You’re right Catherine “(Life) is all about awareness!” We need to understand, recognize (know again) how it is when we get into an argument that moment is a recreation of an argument from our past.
Oh how I wish I had a dollar for each and every time a husband says to his spouse “Who do you think you are talking to?” That phrase alone should be the first clue to each lover that someone in this dispute is talking to a ghost….and the other is not wanting to be a willing participant in such delusion.
What we will we do!…What we wish we won’t!
April 8, 2008 at 12:03 pm
Love your blog. Thank you!