Be the change you want to see in yourself

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Posted by Catherine Morgan on January 10, 2007

Choosing Happiness — by Catherine Morgan

“Be the change you want to see in the world” Mahatma Gandhi

Are you making significant life decisions from a place of fear or anger? Most of us do. When we make choices and respond to people and situations in our life in reaction to fearful and angry emotions, we are choosing unhappiness. From the little responses and decisions in our life, right up to the big ones. So, who cares? Why does this even matter? I genuinely believe we all want peace in our lives. Peace on earth would be great too. The saying; “Be the change you want to see in the world”, suggests that by making positive changes in our own lives, we contribute to a wave that can flow from us, to our family, to our communities, and to the world. It is such a sweet thought. Even if you don’t believe that minor changes you make in your own life can make a difference in the world, there is no doubt that the way we feel emotionally greatly affects our overall personal happiness. How are you feeling about; love, life, family, your job?

If we all just took a little stock in our daily reactions, and paid attention to our responses and decisions, and most importantly noticed when we are responding from a place of fear or anger. If we did this, we could then choose to take more time before we respond to such things, and think them through a bit more. Why is this important? Well, it’s important because once you realize what you are doing and how it affects your life, you can then take the steps to make changes that bring you to a more happy and peaceful place. When you catch yourself reacting out of fear or anger, take a minute to think about how you would react to the same situation from a place of peace or love. If you can’t do that, at least try to find a “neutral” feeling and respond from there. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying this is an easy thing to do. It is by far, the harder thing to do. But, just try it. Start out by choosing one aspect of your life (ie: work, family, husband, etc.), and consciously decide to take fear and anger out of your decision process and out of your reactions. See how it makes you feel. You will be happier, and the people around you will be happier too. This is because when you react to someone in anger, they will most likely respond back to you in anger. Of course the opposite is also true. If you respond to someone in a kind way, they will most likely respond back to you in a kind way.

Did you ever respond to someone in an angry way just because something else had made you mad? Did you ever wonder how your reaction may have caused that person to react to the next person they encountered? It’s a vicious cycle, but luckily it works both ways. It seems to me, that we are all being a change that can be seen in the world. The question then becomes; are the changes we make affecting the world for better or for worse?


9 Responses to “BE THE CHANGE”

  1. I wrote a long note but some how it ot lost …I would like to say that it makes a lot of sense but is at the same time very difficult to implement in this world where your control on life is minimal .

  2. “Numerouno711” — Thank you for your comment. WordPress just did some maintenance on the server, so that might be why you lost what you had been writing….I was lucky and not working on anything at that time.

    In response to your comment: Every positive change we can make in our lives, is a good thing, for us, and the people around us. I’m not suggesting that we can always choose to respond to people in a “kind” way, but every time we do we are putting a “wave” of kindness out into the world. And yes, our lives are always going to be out of our control, the only thing that we do control, is how we “react” to the situations of our lives. And yes, change is very difficult….but it’s my belief that it is also worth it.

  3. PB and J said


    i think ghandhi was a very wise man. very excellent point. if we arent willing to be peaceful, why would peace happen in the world. if we arent willing to forgive why would anyone forgive us. etc

    that is paul said that we must conquer evil with good. unless we act rightly, no one else will.


  4. I agree with you 100% Peter. Thank you for your comments.

  5. Hi Catherine ,

    I am new to blogging and am getting used to manage it .Your articles are always thought provoking and I can relate to them because i think on the same lines , but in due course of time,with all the contamination and rust , my mind has lost the power to react to such issues ,I dont know why my attitude towards life has changed . with putting my thoughts together and be a writer one day .Writing has been my passion. I would like to have your input and the websites i can refer to in order to get back on track


  6. Hi “Numerouno711″…..I put a comment on your blog. But, the long and the short of what I said was….Just start writing, and don’t let anyone (or your own negative thoughts), discourage you. Blogging seems to be a good way to do that, at least for me. As far as sites that might be helpful…this is the one that got me thinking about “blogging”..

    Hope this helps….let me know if I can do anything else. Once you have your site “established”, let me know and I will put a link to it from my site.

    Good luck.

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